I have, in the past, railed against the insensitivity of fertiles and poked fun at them. I've tried to teach them what to say and implored them not to say a great many other things.
I have never delved so deeply, touchingly, and eloquently into this subject as Elphaba of eggsandsperm.com did last week. I send this link to you because I could never hope to improve upon her words.
I wish you good reading!
http://eggsandsperm.com/2011/09/06/so-whats-a-fertile-to-do/
